It's not so much that a Christian woman doesn't want to be submissive, that's what the Bible tells us to do, it's all about how he goes about getting that from her. Guys, when you treat a woman with respect, and you're not overbearing, but understanding, and loving and treat her as she should be treated, have your priorities in line and put her second (only after God) then she will WANT to be submissive to you happily.